Core Values, Lived Practice

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An astonishing week for blooms in our corner of New England brings a burst of activity to our home and landscape. My desire for change prompts me to contemplate a new broom, the better to sweep away the cobwebs of winter. The shift in the light illuminates areas needing attention and that includes not just our immediate environment.

My late winter injuries linger with nagging pain to attend to just when I want to keep moving. Patience for healing is as important as any actions such as proper exercise and nutrition. Slowing down brings focused action. The result is not great leaps but incremental movement, and that’s pretty satisfying. The hare gives way to the tortoise. I have a habit of turning difficult moments into questions. This leads me to ask– How can we create forward motion when confronted with obstacles?

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Core values + Lived practice -> Well-matched Opportunity = Heartening Action

Retreat is not defeat it’s a chance to re-group and come back stronger. Reflecting on your personal home truths and checking in with yourself to see how well your daily life aligns is a good regular practice. I believe in the rhythm of seasonal cycles to provide a framework for this kind of review. With the best of intentions things will still fly apart with regularity, that’s the certainty in the world of uncertainty. Restoring a balance is not always the same as putting things back together as they were before.

Re-assembly required. So often we build on top of the ruins instead of taking the time to go back to the basic foundations.  We need to remember what is underneath, then we can build solidly.

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Show compassion for yourself as you restore balance. Here are some suggestions:

Be gentle with your words, your thoughts and with your body–urge yourself on without drill sergeant shouting, use graceful movement not punishing workouts.

Allow your environment to please you—choose time in nature, silence vs noise.

Eat food you enjoy —buy fresh ingredients, cook simply.

Celebrate daylight! Bathe in the light to lift your spirits!

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P.S. Elan Mastai has a lot to say about building and what to do when things go wrong in his new book—All Our Wrong Todays. A Utopian environment sounds good, but what’s the alternative? The protagonist. Tom Barren, in this time travel adventure unmasks societal misdirection, false gods and searches for redemption. You can find my review on goodreads.

all the best to you

All photos and graphics by Claire Mauro

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A Cup of Tea

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Balance, energy, positivity- who doesn’t want that? This month take the time to connect to what you know to be your core strengths. Instead of the tired clichés how about some old fashioned FUNdamentals?

Simple luxuries on a snowy day have the added charm of being crafted creatively. Never mind that our heart’s desire is available by virtual reality, this is about hands-on simple pleasures. Savor the warmth in your hands circling a steaming cup of tea, float a slice of orange on the surface and inhale the citrusy goodness. Hover over the toaster waiting for the last slice of cinnamon raisin toast – that satisfying pop! when it’s done is music to the ears.

Your senses are free, my friend, make use of them! Whatever your winter landscape, snow and ice or sun and sand, suspend your caretaking of your future self, the dictates of the metaphorical rainy day, and be here now

How do we know anyway, that the person we will be when that rainy day comes will need what we have so carefully put by?

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Reading together — my Aunt Rae and Me

My love of books today came from the simple pleasure of childhood. The walk to library, one hand on the carriage as mom pushed my sleeping sister along the sidewalk, was a treat to be celebrated with a bit of skipping. I can see in my mind’s eye the child-sized chairs with the woven seats, carefully placed beside the shelf of picture books under the eaves of the old library. I loved nothing more than to sit as close as possible, examining the book covers for clues to the riches inside. Being read to and later reading myself, was a joy discovered early.

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While the holiday stack is long depleted the thirst for more is never slaked. New titles crowd my inbox and my personal room of requirement overflows.

We have what we need if we only know what that is. In my case it is Ali Smith’s public library and other stories  the always inventive, unexpected and thrilling nature of her characterizations reveals us to ourselves.

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Smith has taken the occasion of the advent of the all-volunteer library to enthrall me once again. Her sheer genius of burrowing into a character and drawing us into their world in the most spare and artful ways is always satisfying. She serves up a dozen stories and the offerings are interwoven with notable quotes on the value and expansiveness of a public space so rich in opportunity for all ages, the reminder makes one swoon, then rush off to borrow some books!

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In the aftermath of the latest snowfall- oh what a glorious silence! The tree branches are frozen, their icy crustings barely quivering with the undercurrent of wind. Holding still is the way to perceive the movement around me. A single leaf dances erratically while all its companions appear to stand rigid. The more still I am the more tiny movement I see until whole limbs and slender trunks are swaying in the woods before me.

Gather the stillness, wrap it like a cloak and take it with you through your day.

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Happy Valentine’s Day to All!

For more of my book reviews, check out goodreads.com

As usual All photos Claire Mauro

 

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